11 Relationship Boundaries Indian Culture Needs to Normalize

8. Boundaries Around Social Media and Digital Privacy

Digital life collided with close-knit family cultures, creating new boundary challenges. Who can post a couple of photos? Who is allowed in family group chats? Decide these ahead of major events. Draft easy rules: “Don’t post pictures of us without checking first,” or “We won’t discuss relationship conflicts on the family chat.” If relatives insist on broadcasting news, offer a compromise: you’ll share official pictures through a private message when you’re ready. For couples, agree on account access and what feels public versus private. If you live in a multigenerational home, set phone etiquette: no constant sharing of screenshots or private conversations. Explain digital boundaries as a form of mutual respect. When elders are unfamiliar with social media norms, give simple analogies: think of a personal letter you’d read aloud before sending. Providing that a relatable comparison often helps relatives appreciate why some things should stay private until both partners consent.